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Is it anti Afrikan to marry a woman older than you?

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Messenger: GARVEYS AFRICA Sent: 4/8/2015 2:42:01 PM
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Nah a no dat. The marriage ceremony thing jus made me think of something else, that's why I created the other thread. As not to too distract this reasoning ya. African and western ceremony a two different thing still. Ites up


Messenger: Ayah Ntobeko Sent: 4/9/2015 8:27:41 PM
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Honestly i dont see anything wrong or un-african with man marying older wombman,yes majority of society dont like it bt i dont know why! i have not found a sound reason from people who dont like it.to i if its love dat make people enter a union its good bt if its not hhm woe unto you.i think my view wll differ based on i history,i was born in a family where 9o percent of males are married to wombman older than dem bt they are accepted in society even by traditional authorities,bt their situation is different with dt of zion mountain.@black heart 2 answer your question on i pupa nd muma it never worked out bcoz of their differences "work issue"bt pupa nd him current wife is working out they have been married 4 over 20yrs now,i share rastafari values not society traditions.we not trying to influence zion mountain he is de master of his fate we just offering our views,member traditions change as they were made 4 man by man to help man not to controll man,"we are de africans not our traditions"iquality&justice.


Messenger: VoodooRuutz Sent: 4/9/2015 10:13:27 PM
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"WE ARE D AFRICANS NOT OUR TRADITIONS"!

LUV DAT DEH!
BLESS!



Messenger: Black heart Sent: 4/11/2015 1:51:14 PM
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Lord Ntobeko. No one said it is wrong. But I did seh its not African. why? Simply bcos many Africans & cultures teach dat man must b older. why? bcos I & I Aficans know dat a familly where wombman is older tend to be bound with problems. One thing de I affe know is dat I reasoning is not abt yo father but abt I brother Zion Mount who affe make a crucial decision dat can affect him fo de rest of his life. So I man trying to help I brother. So dat he don't find himself in many problems.


Messenger: Black heart Sent: 4/11/2015 2:27:34 PM
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One thing I can't overs why de I Ntobeko like to put de I father 's case where yu know its a misleading example (different)? Did yu ask yo self why Zion Mount ask de question? It is bcos he is ina Africa & he is aware dat its gona b a challenge. I know yu are deffending yo father but mek I & I leave him outa dis & reason abt Zion Mount 's situation. what should he do now? go ahead & face de challenges just bcos yo father did? Are yu helping de brother or just debating? One Black Love


Messenger: Ayah Ntobeko Sent: 4/14/2015 6:37:33 PM
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Bless idren Black heart,me nah promote anything,bt offered my views on dis matter,maybe i was wrong to put i mumma nd pupa's situations,bt idren if you re-read my post i offered a open view example,not promote any decision as de i is saying.i was pointing out an example of real event which happened in africa by africans endorsed by african tribal leaders in i community dats all!Maybe its "unafrican" bt reality strikes we can not ignore it,it has happened,its happening ...our views are different idren,love to dt.me nah realy know what is African or what is not,bt i know myself i identity was never taught by anyone bt by myself.i have seen many strange things africans do bt dt could not change their nationality.what realy define an african?One black love.


Messenger: Ayah Ntobeko Sent: 4/14/2015 7:13:53 PM
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Idren black heart"did you askyourself Why did zion mountain asked de question"I think i dont need to he has said it himself.its not just 4de sake of debating it was about offering views based pon a different community which does not have negative view on situation likedis,which is situated in africa, to say dt its unafrican coz it not common is not aunthetic as not all african tribes share dt views some embrace it,like my tribe, Sory idren if i pupa's example is misleading i never meant to mislead anyone,apologies to dt,let me stop here zion mountain can see what is right/wrong


Messenger: Black heart Sent: 4/14/2015 11:49:59 PM
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Yes I Lord. So which are some of de tribes dat teach dat wombman must be older than man? Which is yo tribe? Again I must seh dat I agree with de I dat it ain't wrong. However de wisemind bhind de African teaching dat seh man must be older than wombman is real. In as far as views are concerned I overs de I & I raspect de I views. My Lord since I & I can meet physicaly, mek we meet one day to sharpen one anada. I know de I is still young just like Zion Mount. I go giv reasons why man must b older



Messenger: Ayah Ntobeko Sent: 4/15/2015 2:16:30 AM
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Ises Black heart,me glad de i overstand i,me know de wise mind of i ancients nd me aprecilove it,as a youth me love to learn idren,nd corrected if wrong.me nah like de tribal differences,bt i as a Nguni me nah teach it,no society teaches it,its people who choose it,bt me not against it,as most of de time its personal choice btween man-wombman,be concious with what you do as everylittle thing you do has consequences.My clan de Thwala people accept it,i know their reasons they are i ancients/Ancestor maybe dt is why i have a different view with de rest of africans, ises black heart you made me see dt my example was not dt relevant to dt of zion mountain,dts de benefit of reasoning iron sharpen iron.One black love!zion mountain take note of black heart advise it might be helpfull to de i,as de i pointed good questions to consider before taking any decisions.Selassie i Menen love!


Messenger: Black heart Sent: 4/15/2015 2:27:52 PM
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Truthful Lord. Iron realy sharpen iron & Reasoning is de foundation of upful livity. One Black Love


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