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Messenger: Ras Sistren Khamyl Sent: 8/4/2005 4:39:25 AM

when is enough enough? when somebody you care about doesn't care about themselves, do you abandon them to save yourself?

Messenger: Sistah Sent: 8/4/2005 12:37:16 PM

Greetings Ras-Sistren Khamyl, InI have been through what you are witnessing at this time. However InI have learned that if one isn't ready to love themself, you can only love them from a distance. Negativity thrives off Negativity. You can't put yourself in a situation where its taken away your positive energy. Although it may hurt to see someone you care about headed for self destruction ask Jah to bless them and may sure you put JAH first! Everything else will fall in place. Remember "There is a place in you where there is perfect peace. There is a place in you where nothing is impossible." Every situation with which we are confronted, contains somewhere within it the seed of our good. Continue to care for this person remember to love yourself! With Respect and Love Sistah (Charlotte, NC)

Messenger: Dreadnut Sent: 8/4/2005 2:06:48 PM

Two cannot walk unless they agree, two cannot walk unless they do so freely. Trying to wait up for someone to gain love for themselves is dangerous to you, because they are like an ancher an can slow you down. Not to say that the person is a bad or dangerous, but they are just in a different place emotionally, and have yet to understand the beauty that they have to offer. But according to the feelings you expressed it sounds like they are weighing you down. Give them guidance, but teach without wanting to control. Rastafari Everliveth Blessing Istren Ras Zion I

Messenger: the rock Sent: 8/4/2005 3:18:21 PM

Love and strength to the I. INI have been going thow things like you have described. I wrote a rhyme about. Let me give you these word, don't let anybody take your(light) joy. "I thought you said you love me." is what she said I really don't know what is going through her head. Speaking words out of the mouth just to hear them said, is of no good use!! Like Willie Erv..say "you going to get your head put inna noose." Is it lost? I don't mean the love I mean the trust. If so how can we work together? Do you overstand what i am saying or is this a game your are playing. If so you should know I don't compete.... I can remeber the days that i thought we were from the same tree And the music that we played was on the same KEYS.. I guess that Juda can be a man or a woman.. do thier job fofiling the Oman. this just lets me know that guiltiness is not just a song that the Wailers made But we know jah judgement come in spades Did i loose site of the night... that trust took flight Cuz know a days anything you say can and will be use for the agenda of the beast. now its 52 weeks thats just 12 more then 40 time from time is nothing at all JAh children will never fall. what ever the CASE# is i must let you go your WAY Your faith and mine are like NIGHT&DAY Did the lie become the truth Was you just telling me what you thought i wanted to hear? I hate to end on that NOTE. Maybe later in life we will play another Tone ..-..-...-....-..-..-...-.... please don't just react, but take time and think and maybe we can find the missing link... "I thought you said you love me."

Messenger: Ras Sistren Khamyl Sent: 8/4/2005 8:27:39 PM

thank you thank you thank you Yes, they are a weighing I down. Inner me say, every life has reason; don't throw away those you love. But InI get lost in cycle. This is so hard for me, its occupying my mind day and night. I can't even escape it when I sleep. RSK InI focus on Jah luv and direction and fast from negative energy. Thank you Sistah

Messenger: Sistah Sent: 8/4/2005 10:57:33 PM

Greetings Ras Sistren Khamyl, You're welcome. InI only want you to know you are not alone. InI just went through something like that within a month of each other and with two different people. If you need to chat IM sistafree2001@yahoo.com. With Love and Respect Jah-Bless! Sistah

Messenger: Empress Nzingha Sent: 8/7/2005 11:02:56 AM

Never abandon anybody, choose to be seperate but keep the lines of contact open. Never sacrifice self without The Most High's permission. You belong to the universe, not the other way around. Peace Love and FREEDOM Empress Nzingha www.geocities.com/nzingha

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