"Evolution develops different patterns based on need."
Are you saying we should steer evolution so that men and women have all the same traits? Same bone structure, hormones, etc, and men having babies? What you're saying makes no sense. We're talking about lions? In that case, I want a woman to put a baby in me like a seahorse.
But let's go with your lioness example. Are you saying men should sit on their ass at home and watch for burglars while the women do all the child rearing and bread winning? That would be sweet, I'm down for that.
Wanna know why lioness hunt? Because they are gatherers, and they don't eat strawberries. A lioness doesn't do the job of a male lion! If a lioness stays behind to protect, she gets mauled and dies of infection, no more baby factory. You are denying reality that is right in front of your face. Propaganda has your head all f'd up.
I also would like to know how women haven't invented "weapons that negate physical strength" to rise up against their oppressors and demand their "rightful place". Could it be they don't analyze the same way? Could it be they are more timid? Could it be they were just comfortable already? Oh no, misogyny!
Women "turn lesbian" because they already had an abundance of masculinity and were combative towards men, men with their shit together stayed far away, so she blames men instead of herself, with the help of the media.
"It's not about force because if you try to do that she wont be happy and will rebel by seeking out other men."
Ok, this is where you don't understand authority. Authority leads people towards necessity, not lining their pockets with blood money and market enslavement as the capitalists do. A functional authority knows when to use it, why to use it, and how far to take it. If a woman acts passive aggressive with you, you don't respond by dunking their head in the toilet and kidney punching them 50 times, that produces terror and rebellion. You would instead ask them why they are being a whiny bitch and not saying what they really think. Disagreement is discipline. Discipline produces fear of consequences for making the same stupid mistakes. Fear and terror are nowhere in the same ballpark. If someone has no outward discipline, they will become unable to self-discipline. I'm living proof. xD
If your woman is about to do something that's gonna seriously injure herself, do you force her to stop? That's authority. If a man is about to get jumped by three guys and his woman puts her body between them and FORCES him to walk away, that's also authority. It doesn't mean anyone is superior. You're getting caught up with literal propaganda, and I'm just trying to state the hard truth. Women are not equal, never have been, never will be without eugenics, never wanted to be. Men also don't want to be in submission to women. It's a shitty system all around.
Why are you acting like Babylon will never fall? It's hanging on by a tiny thread. What happens when we are pushed into a primal state? Nature rears its disgusting head. Someone needs to be ready for it and push others towards necessity. Health and sustainability. Are you prepared to do that, or are you in terror of it happening? Are you scared of losing what you built? I would say you are being manipulated by a dysfunctional authority.
As for your relationship, if she's leading and her expectations are functional, it's a functional relationship. But that would be the exception to the rule when I was careful to clarify MOST women, and when I say that I mean individuals with low testosterone and an abundance of estrogen. Hormones affect instincts. This is a fact.
I would debunk more, but I haven't researched stuff like "matriarchal" societies, but would I be wrong to presume they still had men doing the manly stuff? And if not, did their civilization even survive?