Rock, If the I is having problems with your family, then maybe your dream is just your mind thinking through these things. I don't look at every dream I have as prophesy or a message. Sometimes I realize that certain dreams are just I mind thinking.
If it is a message, then the message might be that the I needs to clean up yourself, because some of the time you betrayed your own self. Also, you said,
In these dream am this person that is so in to the group of people that i am trying to save,that i can't save myself.
If you don't save yourself, you can't save them. That doesn't mean that you don't show them things until you are clean, it means that the I Itinues to show them things, but make sure that you spend enough time blazing Fire on yourself, because you are the best Fire for yourself, because you know all of your own thoughts.
The more that the I deals with your own self, the better the I will be at dealing with them. Because their sin won't tempt the I towards sin, but the I will come with Love.
Haile Selassie I