If she does in fact love you, rather than the idea of you, then you should be able to reason with her on why you don't want to participate in her religion. But to me bredren, it sounds like she has a "if he would only..." type of attitude, which can't work. If the only problem the two of you have in your relationship is the debate about religion, then you should be able to overcome it with little to no friction. Faith is an important part of a person and therefore an important part of a relationship. You should never compromise yourself for someone else, if you must do this to make a relationship "work" then you're in the wrong relationship. So be honest with yourself and with her and everything will work out.
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