I know mi idren, I know.
It is a fine line, a very fine line to walk, you have to find a way to show your strength,your weakness, your humility, your pride, all at the same time
I have a friend and he got into a relationship some time ago with a girl who you might describe in about the same way that you described your woman, you know, a girl who had before only experienced relationships with as you say "deez disrespectful dominant male assholes " . And i would see how they would stay up long into the night just talking on the phone. Now this sounds the way every loving couple should behave. But the problem that i could see was this, he would always, always wait until she had enough of the conversation to end the call, she was the one always saying, ok i have to go now, the i overs?
And i told him the same thing, becareful, she is going to start taking you for granted, you are letting her set the pace of the relationship.
And what does he say, no no we love eachother and thats that.
Well this "relationship" didnt last three months.
I will be back still, i think the sistren them can give more isight into this than i can, so ill see
Blessed Love
Rastafari
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