Very wise words brother Evison. All labels even our own names are only extremely loosely associated to the true identity of self which is ethereal and eternal.
Brother Kashta Ras the I path is the I own, none of us here can (or should ever wish to) force the I in any way, be well and Most High eternally guide the I.
Every single soul is on their own journey and all we can do is wish them well and send love to them on their journey as we walk our own.
I don't think the brother came here for advice so in this case what should anyone say besides